This subject is taboo so ingrained in culture men would
rather walk the streets risking prostitution than work on his and his wife’s
problem. Therein lies the immediate solution though.
I have a problem of telling the truth irrespective of how much
hurt it can possibly cause. Delve right into the heart of mammoth, no foreplay,
mind the pun. I live in the present. Nobody can predict the future. Nobody
should be allowed to if Bell’s curve has to be accepted. And it should be. Nothing is and can get
to 100% probability. The number zero has proven it. Jesus is proven it, even death can be beaten. Lesser
beings have trailed a fiery path direct to the heavens. I don’t want to say
nothing about tax. Indecisive Cyril, let alone blissful Zuma, Trump etc. will
probably circumvent it.
The truth is if it rises when outside, it probably is not
organic based in the first place. It can only be psychological as the pathway
is the same. From the brain to the corpus carvenosum and corpus spongiosum
combined hard rock, exactly the same tract.
Unfortunately once the psychological default pathway has
been opened, it probably will get reinforced every time until it gets to be a
flood. The pun just won’t lay down long enough for me to release the load. The
subject just needs a trigger point, which is the previous memory, probably
induced by that expectant third party. The more understanding she is, the more
the default pathway gets to be ingrained in stone.
Psychotherapy should probably work but I believe one should
limit induction therapy to as little as one can in taboo subjects. It a
treacherous field, littered with un exploded mines. Nobody has time for it even, the expectations are high and patience is veiled thin by long delays in seeking consultation.
I have a simple therapeutic self created screen. If on clinical
examination nothing abnormal is found, I tell the subject in front of the induction
media to indulge in foreplay for a month without crossing the line. Free reign. No penetration though.
Pet all you like but no sex, then come back for review in a month.
I have yet had anyone honor the next appointment. I hope
it’s because they overcame the psychological hurdle, nothing to do with my truthful
and sometimes downright rude way I handle issues presented to me. I hope that they don't come back because the only condition I put on a review date was not kept, on their part at least.
Without no threat of failure, the subject performs like straight
sixes of yesteryear. Well almost, nothing is that close to perfect.
Remember to examine the subjects for pathology though. My screening shouldn’t be blemished by spinal stenotic, diabetics with dysautonomia, coronary artery diseased Lerich syndrome and spastic gaited patients on your review quieie just to proof someone did come for review.
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